this blog is about my life... as a Muslim convert, a school librarian, a wife, a mum, a daughter of non-Muslims, a friend, a colleague...
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
To my future Son-in-law or Daughter-in-law
Dear son-in-law or daughter-in-law,
It's nice to know you.
I hope you have been happy with the family and will always be happy about marrying my son or daughter.
I remember someone writing a letter to her daughter-in-law and I thought this might be a better way to communicate with you, so here it is...just that I have written it here on my blog.
I know you love my son and daughter, and will love us (FIL and MIL) too.
Please continue to shower your love for them and for your children as well, cause I wanna love you the way I love them too.
There have been times, during my time whereby treatment wasn't fair... I just wanna treat you...in your time as my son or daughter in law...as fairly as I can.
No matter what you do, as long as it is not Haram, as long as it is good for your family and you, as long as we stay united as a happy family. I will always back you.
IF you want me to help you take care of your children, I am more than willing to help.
If you want to take care of them on your own, its all fine with me too.
If you want to move out somewhere with my son or daughter and have your on home, just make sure that you come home as a family for lunch and dinner every week, enjoy spending time with me, talk to me, watch tv, sit somewhrere out there and watch the stars etc... I am very happy with it.
If you wanna cook, by all means go ahead!
SAHM or WM...as long as you can manage the family well, go ahead my dear.
At the end of the day, I just want you to be happy :D.
As long as you appreciate my love, for you, however I pamper you and you are grateful... at the end of the day able to thank Allah the way the Almighty wants it to be done, I will say Alhamdulillah. Keep up the good work and hope you'll love me back.
Monday, July 8, 2013
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